My mom and i were texting this morning and as i was talking to her about the things that have been happening to me as i move forward with deliberance in life she text me this “Cant wait to have you back.” This hit me hard. Where did i go? I was submerged in pessimism, depression,...

Talking to Jer until late mornings we tend to talk about everything….sometimes superficial conversations about ice-cream and guns and others its about things that really matter and the other night he hit on a thought i had never really considered until now. We were talking about how the...

This was a very deliberated post for me. I had to REALLY form the words in my mind before i was even brave enough to admit them. My marriage is over. I finished my divorce this week. Not many people knew about it ~ let alone what has been happening. Those closest to me knew what was happening...

family…what is this? I am re-defining family. I would not need to do this normally ~ but now that i am in the middle of a gigantic cluster-F of a big life change and trial i am learning who my family is. No matter what circumstance in life we are in i would not judge my family and i...

Meet Whitney and her family. I have been brewing on this post for about a year. I dont know that i will EVER be fully ready to say all i want to but here goes. She is inspiration. She has cancer…and i dont want to get into details but she is ill. She is suffering through it but only she...

the things we are running from or trying to escape out of us tend to be the things that define us the best. I am lindy. i am trying to define myself today in everything that i can think of because i might not feel so dizzy or lost if i do. i value myself as an individual that not one person is...